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Playful1 · 05-09-2008, 02:16 PM

Hmmm...though question actually.

I got involved through a friend of mine and his partner. I had a great introduction, no real stumbling blocks to getting involved other than my own inexperience(with alcohol mainly). Thankfully my friends were understanding and kept inviting me back and it worked out great. My biggest stumbling block has probably been my own insecurity about my looks and being a little shy sometimes. That and peoples assumptions that because I am a single female, I must not be "nice. I get told all the time after people get to know me that they were so surprised ot find out how "nice/sweet" I am.

05-09-2008, 02:16 PM	#12 (permalink)
Playful1 Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 88 Location: US Status: Single Female	Re: Singles: What have been your greatest Stumbling Blocks Hmmm...though question actually. I got involved through a friend of mine and his partner. I had a great introduction, no real stumbling blocks to getting involved other than my own inexperience(with alcohol mainly). Thankfully my friends were understanding and kept inviting me back and it worked out great. My biggest stumbling block has probably been my own insecurity about my looks and being a little shy sometimes. That and peoples assumptions that because I am a single female, I must not be "nice. I get told all the time after people get to know me that they were so surprised ot find out how "nice/sweet" I am.