Re: Frustrated but Understanding Here's what I find frustrating about single males.
Met a great looking guy and we had several chat sessions. We talked about normal things, not sex. He impressed me right away with his intelligence and humor. He was in his late 20s, owned his own business and was very interested in me.
We decided on a weekend when we would meet. We drove 2.5 hours and planned to meet for dinner and then go on to a swing club. Called his cell - no answer, left vm. He never called back the entire weekend.
Got an email back a few days later - he was sick.
Continued to chat with him and made plans for another meet.
Same outcome. We drove 2.5 hours, went to the club, called him several times. No answer or return call.
So, it was frustrating and we had to ditch him.
If you make plans, stick to them. If you arrive and there's no chemistry, then say so. Don't stand people up.
When we meet single males at a club, this doesn't happen. They're there to play and so are we. You do have to stand out among the crowd though. Be polite, talk to BOTH the husband and wife, dress nice and above all respect our relationship.
If you'd like more pointers on how to impress, just ask.
Mrs. D
Last edited by des1re06 : 05-09-2008 at 10:57 AM.
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