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Old 05-08-2008, 11:29 PM   #11 (permalink)
Dynamar
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Join Date: Mar 2005
Posts: 722
Location: A flyover state
Status: Single
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Default Re: Frustrated but Understanding

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Originally Posted by NumbskullsX2 View Post
Very few couples and even fewer single women are "looking for single males."
How, exactly, do people get this notion? Not sure where your data comes from Numbskulls, but I'm a single female and I also know lots of single females in the lifestyle. To the tune of a couple dozen or so. All of them... let me repeat... all of them, every single one enjoy and definitely want to meet quality single males.

To the OP I would say... be patient, be kind and perhaps see if the people who cert'ed you would be willing to take you along to some meet & greets or house parties. And remember that there's about as many ways to swing as there are people swinging. Don't let some couples who think that their way is the only way deter you from getting to know people and enjoying yourself. That being said... fleshing out your profile a little bit and adding some nice smiling face pix to your profile certainly wouldn't hurt.
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