View Single Post
Old 05-08-2008, 11:33 AM   #10 (permalink)
two42lovers
Luv seeing friends quiver
 
two42lovers's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2008
Posts: 298
Location: California central coast
Status: couple
Swing Lifestyle Name:two42lovers

two42lovers is very well respected around here two42lovers is very well respected around here two42lovers is very well respected around here
Default Re: How do you know if they are actually single?

A little piece of advice. Never give your home number to someone you don't know, only give a cell number. You can find out pretty much everything about someone if you have their land line. Previous addresses, schools they attended, age, and on and on... all you have to do type the number into a search field, and presto!

As for knowing a person is single, we simply take their word for it. No interest in doing background checks -lol! If it doesn't pass the "smell test" we decline, but as was already mentioned, if they are good liars there's no way to know. Going to an on-premise club makes it easy for a cheater, I would assume.

On the flip side, if you've only just met at a club, how do you know a couple is married to each other? (There are swing couples who are in fact cheaters, married to different people. We've met a few who've admitted it freely.) It's a little puzzling how some -singles and couples- we've met are completely upfront about their cheating. Have to wonder, if they are lying to their spouses, why tell us the truth?
__________________
Tell the people you love how you feel, and do what your heart tells you.
two42lovers is offline   Reply With Quote