[Bama0468]

Well I was going to quote the same one Gregg and Sheryl did, and say the same thing, and here is another part. Those of us who say no we would not, mean we would not KNOWINGLY do it, it has happened to us as we were lied to. So what you have to figure is those LONELY people you all are refering to CAN get caught by the spouse and then its a nightmare for the LS couple.
We have had them lie and say it was ok with the spouse ( wehen we were less experienced and more nieve and believed everyone you met in a LS site was honorable, SORRY but is not so hate to burst anyones Bubble!
how would you like the spouse calling your phone and saying WTF and drag you through their messy divorce, we were at least lucky and we don't know what he told her and we were left out of the mess.

Happened with a LS couple as well when she wanted me, but my wife did not want him, we had all hung out with groups and such, she approached and wanted to hook up I asked about her hubby, she said he was ok with it. We set up a time and place to meet.
We played at their place and after wards the phone rings and its her hubby, I was getting ready to say hey when she waved her hand and shushed me ... it was awkward and I felt as though I cheated.

those happened around the same time frame and now if some one says its ok with their spouse, we want to talk to them first.