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Originally Posted by good times  We usually say we stayed home and played Scrabble. Nobody has ever asked any further details about the Scrabble. |
LOL this is classic.
We're lucky in that we don't often mix friendship groups (work/uni/his friends/ her friends/mutual friends etc), so if we say we're going out with friends, each group assumes it's with the other group, and that invites aren't to be expected. it was like that BEFORE we started to swing. having relatives in other states also will help cover any interstate trips.
we have a couple of close friends that don't swing, but know we do. we just tell them the truth (and generally get interviewed afterwards because they think it's fascinating).