Re: Open Marriage vs Swinging?
havefuninsun
I have to agree. In the research that we have done over the last few months, it is true that swinging is in conastant flux. What you may be against in the begining, you become a champion for later.
That being said, my situation is, in my opinion, different than most in that I have not started to "play". This is not for a lack of desire or really any fear. As I have thought about it and disscused this with the Mrs. it is simply a matter of making the time and getting the energy to do so. Again, My job will send me anywhere on the earth at the drop of a hat. Point and case, I was away 8 out of the last 12 months. When I get home, I just want to be home!
My desire to share my wife with another couple is out of a desire to be together at all times when we can. If I find that I have an oportunity to play on my own, rest assured, I will not pass this up. Largely due to the fact that my wife expects and approves of this.
I guess you could say we have a swinging open marriage. Huh! Go figure!
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