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Old 05-04-2008, 06:51 AM   #13 (permalink)
couplewanting50
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Join Date: Aug 2005
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Default Re: Trouble Getting Hard

For most men it is mental. Their expectations are too high, they are analyzing and reviewing, rather than simply being open to pleasure and allowing response to occur naturally.

For me, I find that the real solution is separate room play, eliminating all of the numerous possible distractions, focusing only on my sexual partner, and being with her.

I love watching my wife fuck and play, but don't have much luck in a room with others playing. I am not complaining, you understand, as separate room play is marvelous.
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