 Re: Trouble Getting Hard
It is some or all the above but yours either sounds like performance anxiety or too many distractions or the other women you are with simply aren't triggering what turns you on.
In terms of doing it a certain number of times, our observation is that the lifestyle does attract highly sexed people with a greater degree of staminia and endurance than the general population. We are friends with a 50's gentleman who did seven women a total of ten times over 1.5 days. This is not uncommon for him and in fact his comment was that he isn't the man he used to be!
I have had the exact same problems you describe. In my case I discovered the core issue was not having a partner who really excited me. I not really multi-orgasmic and have had difficulty getting aroused and staying hard even without condoms. Buth then a couple of weekends ago we were with a couple who were a little kinky and I happen to have some fantasies in that area. WITH CONDOMS, I was able to stay hard and cum twice - a great confidence booster for me and she had fun too. Perhaps that has something to do with your situation.
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