The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Trouble Getting Hard During and AFTER the swing

imsherona2 · 05-03-2008, 06:30 PM

Okay, my SO says it is very normal for this to happen, he called it "performance anxiety". He says just try and relax, have a drink or glass of wine, play with your partner and don't force the issue. Attending parties and watching may help and sooner or later, you will find yourself in the same shoes as the rest of the men...!! Good luck to you guys. Hugs, Sharon & Mike

05-03-2008, 06:30 PM	#9 (permalink)
imsherona2 Here to Stay Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 80 Location: Grants Pass Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:imsherona	Re: Trouble Getting Hard Okay, my SO says it is very normal for this to happen, he called it "performance anxiety". He says just try and relax, have a drink or glass of wine, play with your partner and don't force the issue. Attending parties and watching may help and sooner or later, you will find yourself in the same shoes as the rest of the men...!! Good luck to you guys. Hugs, Sharon & Mike