The Swingers Board - View Single Post - How do you know if they are actually single?

iapr · 05-03-2008, 10:28 AM

The only way to know for sure is to hire a private investigator and do a thorough background check. You need to decide if how important it is to you. If you ask if he is single and he says yes is that good enough for you? Or do you require that he hand over his SS # and birth certificate and DL # so you can do a full background and credit check?

If someone is a motivated lier and is skilled at dooping people he will be able to doop you. If he is a cheating player he has been asked a hundred times by people more experienced than you and he has a good cover story and a whole song and dance all rehearsed and ready to go.

In the end that is something that you are going to have to decide for youself and you will have to follow your instincts and let your conscience be your guide.

05-03-2008, 10:28 AM	#9 (permalink)
iapr Has Left the Building Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 832 Location: State of bliss Status: couple	Re: How do you know if they are actually single? The only way to know for sure is to hire a private investigator and do a thorough background check. You need to decide if how important it is to you. If you ask if he is single and he says yes is that good enough for you? Or do you require that he hand over his SS # and birth certificate and DL # so you can do a full background and credit check? If someone is a motivated lier and is skilled at dooping people he will be able to doop you. If he is a cheating player he has been asked a hundred times by people more experienced than you and he has a good cover story and a whole song and dance all rehearsed and ready to go. In the end that is something that you are going to have to decide for youself and you will have to follow your instincts and let your conscience be your guide.