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Originally Posted by JustAskJulie  Now you've opened a can of worms..... so are you saying that CHEATING IS SWINGING? |
I can see how that came across wrong and its my error stating anything like that
. I could edit that but I wont, because it does need clarified
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There are certain couples who play separate with permission to begin with. Should they have the chance to play, they don't necessarily have to make a call and ask permission at the moment. And later give the details to their spouse. We have played with one woman that I didn't feel comfortable not knowing, or talking, to her husband. So I called him. He was in AZ and we were here. He let me know it would be fine nothing was out of the ordinary for them. I felt a little silly calling but still would do the same. There was no deception involved.
Now if it were a cheating situation deception is the difference.
Cheating is sex with others in a deceptive way !
Swinging is sex with others without deception, to anyone
Even so, This is all up to Geminigrey and his wife as to what they may do in their future. How they play with others needs to be defined between themselves.