[javelin]

I'd like to touch on the "lifes too busy" comments. Maybe this is too far off topic, mods can feel free to delete if they want, but I find many seem to keep themselves busy, even when it obviously is to the detrement of the family. I wonder how many divorces could have been avoided if there was one less soccer game, one less gym class, one less baseball game and more family/friends time. My wife and I are making a concious decision to make our life so busy we do not have time for family or EACH OTHER. Our kids are allowed one outside activity, the rest of time is for family outtings, or for adult outtings. Friends are vital to keeping your spirits up when "life" gets you bogged down.

When I get drunk I get amorous, and in those situations it would be nice to be with someone you could just sit next to, maybe put arm around, and not have to worry if the husband is going to chew her ear off later for flirting with you.