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We voted its not required... Why ? Becuse we know the ones we are having sex with, care about themselves just like we do. We have had sex before with some that maybe we didn't know so well, and we have been tested since. Its just the fact that or play group has gotten smaller now. The ones we play with, know as much about our medical history as we do. Its vice versa also.

When we find ourselves in a situation with new people, we know there are risks. We don't expect proof or documentation. We did get asked once to show std test results, and come to find out they didnt bring theirs. We just use the best judgments we can, and enjoy our decision.

If we put all the fears above our lifestyle of enjoying sex with others..... Nobody is having fun. We just don't let fear contoll us. We make our best choices, its all we can do...