Re: STD Testing
we always ask our play couples if they have had a test recently. I agree that in swinging, the potential for getting a STDs exists even if using a "safe sex only" policy (condoms), but I still believe that bacause of these risks, one is entitled to know if another couple has a particular disease.
Recently, a girlfriend we used to play with got genital Herpes from her new boyfriend. She literally dissapeared for a few months, and just a few weeks ago, she broke the sad and embarassing news to us. Her now "ex" boyfriend was a total jerk in not telling her before hand of his sickness... instead, she was brave and honest to us.
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