[Cpl2share]

I have had an ED problem once in my life. That was in our first full swap situation. I did have an erection, came from oral, and then when time came for intercourse, my play partner started to put the condom on me. As the condom unrolled so did my erection! For the rest of the evening no woman could get me up. I was very turned on, and wanted to play, but the damned thing would not get up! After a lot of consideration I determined the following:
1) I had been bareback for the past 15 yrs. I do not like condoms, and to make things worse, the condom was too small so it "cramped" the works.
2) There was way too much stimulation. Mrs. Cpl and her partner were on the same bed having fun. The music was that screamy high school kid stuff (yep, old school country here) and turned up to the max. I prefer "background" music.
3) I was worried about Mrs. Cpls comfort level physically and mentally.

Fix it: Don't try to play at the club. Find a comfort zone such as a motel or your own home. Get just one couple to join you and work into it. After you do it in a mellow relaxed setting, you can move into the more "hectic" setting. Kind of like singing or acting. There is a reason that people in the public eye practice before hand, you get comfortable with what you are doing and then do it in front of more people.