 Re: Poly vs swinging
Very nice and thoughtful reply from you rpu3. I think one problem is that we seldom meet people we can spend time with due to the distance apart. If they can't keep the relationship up with emails or phone calls there is little chance of spending any time together. Personally, I think keep themselves busy so they have excuses for not doing stuff. I know people who are busy as hell, but they do stuff that just creates more work for themselves with little reward. I guess I am a people person, and put alot of time into people, which of course is seldom returned. I can't say never, cause it has happened. You'd think when you meet someone at say Hedo, you already have a lot in common, a shared interest. When the real world comes back, I think people turn back into everyday people and those cool new friends they met on vacation loose relevance in the real world.
In response to "So, are you looking for friends or love or both?" I'd say both, but it is hard to get to either when people are too busy to get to know you. |