[javelin]

I am certian I will contribute nothing new here, but what the hell. I don't recall any mention of poly when I first looked at these forums. I stumbled on Polyamory and discovered that that is what I was looking for, not swinging. We did Hedo, Desire, and a couple swingers clubs, but the casual nature of it let us empty. We wanted to make some real friends who we could also have some sexy fun with. People who would be more than just a passing character in our lifes. I found most people just don't give a fuck to make friends. In the real world they are too busy to bother with emails or getting to know someone. We've basically given up on even trying. The reward was not worth the effort. We made what we thought was a great connection, 4 people who really seemed to get along. The sexy chemistry was there as was the friendship. It was really nice. Then they got married, pregnant and moved to another state. Now they are too busy to keep up the relationship. So why is everyone too busy these days? Why does no one value new friendships? I guess everyones life is just so fullfilled and complete that there is no room for more. Oh well.