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Originally Posted by ecoupleca  Wow, it seems the post struck a cord. Let me just say that the don't tell portion of the evening came after the event so to speak. I don't like being put in that position it is not really fair. What to do at a time like we were having? I did tell my wife and she is OK with it.
That leads to the other question that came from a response regarding a line that read "women and rules".... I don't want to start a flurry of negitative comments but here is why I made that comment. Not to generalize of course but there have been times that women during the course of a playful evening decide that they are stepping out of the box, caught in the moment, feeling exceptionally free, take it to a place they have been thinking of going or whatever the reason, a night to break the rules. Some will tell their spouse some will say nothing about it and just leave the situation silent and others who have reservations have to verbalize the need to keep it... as they say.... "stays in Vegas. In some of the cases the rules are not necessarially spelled out prior and sometimes the magic of the evening happens during play times. But at all times respect is the key there and NO means NO and STOP means STOP. Those rules should never be broken. In this case the Husband verbalized the rules but she didn't agree or disagree at the time.
Last comment. Ladies there must be some of you out there that have broken the rules for some reason. Let's here from you. |
Thank you for the clarification. And while YES, I can understand the feeling more free "in the moment" and doing something that you may have thought you weren't ready for before. To a lesser degree, that's happened with me, but only in situations where Mr. Sweet and I had no rule "covering" that situation, or a miscommunication about certain parameters.
But when it comes right down to it, if I'm
sureof a rule/guideline/whatever between me and Mr. Sweet or with our playmates, I will not violate that. And YES, I've been tempted to do so, but I have too much respect for Mr. Sweet and our friends that I did not.
I'm glad to know that things worked out okay with you and your friends, but still find it to be a slippery slope when you don't stick with the playbook.
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