The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Her rules changed when her husband wasn't in the room

ecoupleca · 04-25-2008, 05:24 PM

Wow, it seems the post struck a cord. Let me just say that the don't tell portion of the evening came after the event so to speak. I don't like being put in that position it is not really fair. What to do at a time like we were having? I did tell my wife and she is OK with it.
That leads to the other question that came from a response regarding a line that read "women and rules".... I don't want to start a flurry of negitative comments but here is why I made that comment. Not to generalize of course but there have been times that women during the course of a playful evening decide that they are stepping out of the box, caught in the moment, feeling exceptionally free, take it to a place they have been thinking of going or whatever the reason, a night to break the rules. Some will tell their spouse some will say nothing about it and just leave the situation silent and others who have reservations have to verbalize the need to keep it... as they say.... "stays in Vegas. In some of the cases the rules are not necessarially spelled out prior and sometimes the magic of the evening happens during play times. But at all times respect is the key there and NO means NO and STOP means STOP. Those rules should never be broken. In this case the Husband verbalized the rules but she didn't agree or disagree at the time.
Last comment. Ladies there must be some of you out there that have broken the rules for some reason. Let's here from you.

04-25-2008, 05:24 PM	#10 (permalink)
ecoupleca Here to Stay Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 15 Location: ca Status: couple	Re: Rules?? Wow, it seems the post struck a cord. Let me just say that the don't tell portion of the evening came after the event so to speak. I don't like being put in that position it is not really fair. What to do at a time like we were having? I did tell my wife and she is OK with it. That leads to the other question that came from a response regarding a line that read "women and rules".... I don't want to start a flurry of negitative comments but here is why I made that comment. Not to generalize of course but there have been times that women during the course of a playful evening decide that they are stepping out of the box, caught in the moment, feeling exceptionally free, take it to a place they have been thinking of going or whatever the reason, a night to break the rules. Some will tell their spouse some will say nothing about it and just leave the situation silent and others who have reservations have to verbalize the need to keep it... as they say.... "stays in Vegas. In some of the cases the rules are not necessarially spelled out prior and sometimes the magic of the evening happens during play times. But at all times respect is the key there and NO means NO and STOP means STOP. Those rules should never be broken. In this case the Husband verbalized the rules but she didn't agree or disagree at the time. Last comment. Ladies there must be some of you out there that have broken the rules for some reason. Let's here from you.