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Old 04-25-2008, 12:46 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Default Re: Rules??

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Originally Posted by ecoupleca View Post

I asked her about the rules and she said she doesn't do that normally but felt she was free tonight to do what she wanted without her husband around for the first time since they were married and she enjoyed it greatly. But keep the evenings private detailed actions from her husband. Gotta love women and rules!
Your post was a smooth read for me until this last paragragh and then the red light started flashing.

I'd not be comfortable with a playmate who informs me that they aren't going to tell their spouse about somthing we did since it was outside their rules. I would be particularly uncomfortable with them asking me not to let the cat out of the bag. We're talking about lying here, and that's never a good thing in swinging.

Would you want your wife doing things with her playmate that the two of you hadn't agreed too, and then lying to you about it? Would you want her playmate telling her not to tell you about something they did together?

You say "Gotta love women and rules!" and I'm confused by what you mean, if you care to explain I'd appreciate it.

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