Wow, thanks for all the responses. Mike and I
always have a good time together. We've been talking about it a lot since I posted the other day. I think, for both of us, it was just that there was no real lead in... we talked a bit about rules and preferences during dinner, but when we got upstairs it was just, "okay, lets go!"
What happened to foreplay??
I guess we'll just have to look for someone - er -
someones more in tune with how we operate. On a side note, we had a lovely time with a very sexy unicorn later that night
We just need to find that same chemistry with another couple, I guess.