Re: Been there. Done that. Had a good time. 50's lady thanks so very much for u'r input about telling. u saved me money now i don't have to buy a tee shirt with "i have herpes" on it. LOL. the 2 couples that r swingers we know, we plan to tell them as to why we can't and won't swing with them. all our other friends we will just go on as nothing has happened, as that is the point the dr was making with what he said. as far a swinging for u the suggestion about the herpes group may be a route u may want to consider down the road. thanks again, and good luck. d&j |