Re: get a clue I look to see if they are female! LOL
Seriously though: For us the biggest thing is that they have a sense of humor and some intelligence. Neither one of us is into bedpost notching, so there has to be some physical attraction as well as mental stimulation before we find someone sexually attractive. No way to know though. So far the one big thing that we have noticed is that neither of us has "zeroed in" on someone who is physically simliar to us. Is that so that we are not comparing, or is it because we want variety? Who knows, but it is working for us. |