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Originally Posted by JustAskJulie  The biggest reason any stigman exists is because people won't talk about it... if that is the drs reason for saying keep it to yourself all they are doing is causing both the disease and the stigma to be spread. |
Putting aside the chemistry issue, which all of us want with our play partners, would you play with me? I doubt it.
I am just not worth the risk for recreational sex.
Potential playmates will commend me for my honesty and back away from me as far as they can get hoping that I do not notice the look of horror on their faces.
To tnohcpl....no one knows about my herpes except for 2 close couple friends who could have been exposed and, of course, my husband. There is no need to tell anyone else ever unless you plan on having sex with them. This is a skin to skin virus and is not transmitted through clothing. Someone's mouth area or genital area has to come in contact with the skin of your mouth area or genital area to spread the virus.