 Re: Been there. Done that. Had a good time.
in defense of the dr saying keep u'r mouth shut he was refering to the fact that i wanted to tell all my friends not just the ones that could have been swing parters if and when j had gone into remission with her cancer and we had pursued swinging, which we definately will not now. i just wanted to give our friends the choice of remaining our friends knowing we had herpes. the dr seemed to think as long as we were not sleeping with them and not having outbreaks that there was no need in telling them. which bring to a point a good question for 50's lady and those in the know. when u got herpes did u tell u'r family and ALL u'r non swinging friends u had them. if yes what were there reactions, and did u loose a lot of them. thanks, d&j |