Re: Vacations in a poly relationship...... My wife (Angie) and I have been married for almost 24 years. And, we first made love together almost 30 years ago. (In college…) However, about a week after that first time, Angie had intercourse with a classmate of mine. They became an “exclusive” couple until after Easter break. Al and Angie traveled to Daytona Beach and shared a room for the week. During the trip, Angie realized that she loved both Al and I. After they returned, Angie and I got back together, with her stipulating that she and Al would continue having a relationship, provided that Al would accept that Angie also loved me. The good thing was that we’d all been friends before sex was introduced into the relationship. And, we’d remained friends during the time that Angie and Al were sexually exclusive. (Except for swinging… which Angie later introduced me to! But, that’s another story!) In fact, Al and Angie still get together several rimes a year for weeks at a time. What we do is simply not take Angie to the same place that the other does! Angie is known as my wife in the places where we always vacation. And, she’s known as Al’s wife in the places where they vacation together. It’s been a bit trickier for them to travel at times (especially since 9/11) as they often go to the Caribbean as they quickly found that while some places were accepting of their relationship back then, others either weren’t or where openly hostile. I hope this helps… Rick |