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socolais · 04-23-2008, 07:14 AM

We've had experiences where we'd have to say the sex was less than fulfilling - but ya know, that's OK because it was still a fun time with the playmate and we'd do it again when the opportunity arrises. We've had good sex too. One of the cool things about swinging for us is we have tons of fun when we get back together after the party, so good sex/ bad sex won't matter after a few hours.

I think the distinction between the good and bad depends on our expectations. Sex with someone new is exciting just for the newness and the challenge of learning their hot buttons and feel their roaming fingers touch me in an exploring way.

It's all in the attitude....

04-23-2008, 07:14 AM	#4 (permalink)
socolais nothin special Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 858 Location: Dallas Status: M. Male - half of a novice swinging couple SLS Name:Bruce_Melissa Blog Entries: 11	Re: Evolution of preferences We've had experiences where we'd have to say the sex was less than fulfilling - but ya know, that's OK because it was still a fun time with the playmate and we'd do it again when the opportunity arrises. We've had good sex too. One of the cool things about swinging for us is we have tons of fun when we get back together after the party, so good sex/ bad sex won't matter after a few hours. I think the distinction between the good and bad depends on our expectations. Sex with someone new is exciting just for the newness and the challenge of learning their hot buttons and feel their roaming fingers touch me in an exploring way. It's all in the attitude.... __________________ Drama sold separately,,,,, some assembly required.....