Mike and I have been going to a local on-premise club since we started investigating the lifestyle last November. We played exclusively by ourselves in the public areas of the club (watch and be watched
) until we finally got comfortable. That happened in February. Soft swing with another couple. It was a bit... well, it wasn't what we expected.
Afterward, we both felt that maybe the fantasy was better than the reality. Now, it may have been the particular couple (not a whole lot of chemistry, and they were kind of agressive for my taste - first time and all). We've been to busy to make it back to play since then (going again this weekend).
Long story... well... long. We're not really sold on the whole experience. It got me to wondering, have your preferences changed since you first started swinging? Did you have an experience that left you going, "well, I'll never do THAT again," but later found someone(s) that made you revise that thought? I guess I'm just hoping that this was just a bad first experience and that, with the right couple,things might go the way I imagined them when we started.
~Lea