[couplers]

The only thing I have to add (as the wife in a somewhat similar situation) is for you to help him recruit a girlfriend. As the girltalk, even among vanilla women, eventually turns to sex, I talk up hubby. What a good lover he is. This approach has been a slow go, but exciting. Hubby and I also use it to fantasize about friends, acquaintances, co-workers, college students, waitresses. Thus far, we are on our third and longest term girlfiend for David. The first two lasted just short of a year (it was a rebound after a divorce) and 18 months, but both eventually wanted more than being the other woman and moved on. His current gf is a busy, ambitious woman and this situation fits her well. I am not bi, and none of these women are, but I wanted to watch and the current one is the first that lets me. I am still friends with all of them.