Some specific reasons we have said, "No Thanks":
- One member fully (sometimes overly) engaged, the other just along for the ride
- Those who consider "Hi, nice shoes..wanna F**k?" to be the upper limit for conversation.
- Those who need their libido jump-started by liquor or drugs.. and proceed to indulge beyond the ability to perform or enjoy themselves.
- One's 'hot'..the other's not, but they seriously think the 'hot' one more than makes up for it
- Obvious differences, ie; stated preferences, play style, safe-sex, etc. We actually read other's profiles and heed what's in them - we are constantly amazed at how many people don't!
Unfortunatly, many people take rejection personally..or perhaps more accurately, as being about something negative on their part. It can, in fact, be as simple as you just don't make the other folk's hearts beat faster!