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Old 04-22-2008, 03:27 PM   #34 (permalink)
Bama0468
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Bama0468 gives some great advice
Default Re: Open Marriage vs Swinging?

I think to a degree yes they can define, how one might ask, By knowing at what point they feel they would be crossing into that area. which is why an understanding from all three sides as to what hey think that line in the sand is may lead to a more definite answer.

For us who have dabbled on the fringe at times ( by our definition) it would be

approval and knowing (whether seperate or together) -Swinging
Approval and not knowing (or finding out after the fact) - Open marriage
no approval and not knowing -cheating

but here in again, it is only my opinion.
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