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Originally Posted by gnb4u  The reason I am looking into this is I believe rejection is a ubiquitous part of the lifestyle landscape and I think if were to look into it more we can find some common themes and trends and we can all learn from each other and hopefully avoid some common mistakes and pitfalls.
Please do not just say to "get over it" or to "move on". This is not about me or anyone or any incident in particular.
So here is the question, What are some of the reasons you have rejected perfectly nice couples, of your age range and of your desired play preferences in the past? |
I think people are getting a little off track here and not answering the actual quesition that the OP has posed. He has stated this is not about him but is wanting to hear some reasons that other people have rejected seemingly compatable people. I think it is good idea and that we can all learn something from each other if instead we share some of our experiences instead of telling him why he can't do what he is trying to do.
Some of the reasons we have rejected people in the past are -
One very nice couple the male reminded my wife of an old boyfriend.
A couple different times all seemed well untill my wife got close to the other guy and he had bad breath.
We have had several people that were nice and attractive but they were looking for long term friendships and were wanting to do vanilla things on a weekly or more basis.
There have been several couples that were really only wanting F/F play even though they initially said they weren't.
There have been lots of times the female half was nice but the male half just sat there and couldn't or didn't want to talk to either of us.
And we have had about a million and half couples that appeared somewhat interested but my wife did not find the male half physically attractive.
And by comparison there was one couple that the male was attractive and nice and my wife liked him but the female couldn't keep her mouth shut for for more than a couple seconds and drove everyone nuts.
We have also not responded to many peoples emails because their profile pics were gross. Gross as in graphic sex and close-up pics.
Hope this helps.