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Old 04-21-2008, 02:26 PM   #23 (permalink)
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Default Re: why have you rejected perfectly nice couples in the past?

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Originally Posted by gnb4u View Post
My mission is not to eliminate all rejection from the earth. I agree that is not possible. My interest is to learn more about why couples reject other couples. That is possible.

The truth is there are some universally accepted standards of beauty that are crosscultural and existed since there has been depictions of the human body and those standards have supported by scientific research, ie female waist to hip ratio of =< 0.7, clear skin, nice hair etc etc. So things are universal and some things are preference. Some women will prefer George Clooney and some will prefer Brad Pitt (both of which have been rejected at various times) but noone will argue that they are both attractive men.

Perhaps the same is true of why couples are rejected too. Perhaps there are universal standards of unattractiveness and behaviours that if people could become aware of they will be better prepared to avoid.

I will argue that one! I don't think Brad Pitt is attractive in any way! Not even in Interview with a vampire or legends of the fall! He does nothing for me.

No one person on earth can truely answer this question. It is all about perception and preference. The reason one says no, may be the reason another says yes. Life would be extremely boring if we all liked and wanted the same things.
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