The Swingers Board - View Single Post - why have you rejected perfectly nice couples in the past?

tncinmd · 04-21-2008, 08:30 AM

In your last reply, you referenced things to which you can apply scientific priciples. Unfortunately, this has zero to do with the human condition. If we had people formulae, we'd have world peace and prosperity for all, because we'd all agree on everything.

Why do you reject couples ? Maybe they think they're perfectly nice and are confused also. We all have our preferences and prejudices, which limits our universe of couples. That's the easy part. Then comes the issue of chemistry. It's undefineable and is either there or it isn't.

People are funny. A word, the sound of your voice, some gesture, your attitude and all of a sudden one of the other parties is turned off. Can you predict this ? Not a chance in heck.

You'll just have to manage like the rest of us. Go out, have a good time with yourselves, hope some other couple clicks with you and vice-versa and don;t take it personally.

Good luck to you.

04-21-2008, 08:30 AM	#20 (permalink)
tncinmd Here to Stay Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 70 Location: Maryland Status: Couple SLS Name:tncinmd	Re: why have you rejected perfectly nice couples in the past? In your last reply, you referenced things to which you can apply scientific priciples. Unfortunately, this has zero to do with the human condition. If we had people formulae, we'd have world peace and prosperity for all, because we'd all agree on everything. Why do you reject couples ? Maybe they think they're perfectly nice and are confused also. We all have our preferences and prejudices, which limits our universe of couples. That's the easy part. Then comes the issue of chemistry. It's undefineable and is either there or it isn't. People are funny. A word, the sound of your voice, some gesture, your attitude and all of a sudden one of the other parties is turned off. Can you predict this ? Not a chance in heck. You'll just have to manage like the rest of us. Go out, have a good time with yourselves, hope some other couple clicks with you and vice-versa and don;t take it personally. Good luck to you.