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Old 04-20-2008, 12:14 PM   #19 (permalink)
Pepper & Drew
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Default Re: Open Marriage vs Swinging?

I don't necessarily think those in open marriages are more likely to fail. It's the same argument that non-swingers make about swinger marriages. But, in light of the online gaming, the issues you all are dealing with, I think ANY outside contact, including swinging, open marriage, or cheating is only going to further seperate the two of you.

If a couple agrees to open marriage while their marriage is a healthy one, I think it can work. If your marriage is in a fragile place and you decide to have an open marriage (or swing, for that matter) you are either prolonging the inevitable, or speeding it up.

Pepper
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