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Originally Posted by tittietwister  Have also had that experience. We were invited to a second play meeting (after a first vertical meeting) a couple's house ostensibly because she found me hot. After my wife and her husband left to play in a separate room she asks me if its OK if we don't play. I wasn't going to force her so I said OK and we did the dishes together from dinner (that's right - dishes). Then she tells me not to tell her husband or my wife that we didn't do anything. I told my wife anyway.
Later, we did have the over to our house for a vertical dinner as despite the problem I did like them both. I would have been happy to change the relationship to vertical to keep them as friends. My wife was pissed at them so fixed a lousy dinner that was highly spiced and it made them sick. We didn't know spicy food didn't agree with them but unintended payback was had.
I do appreciate the tips I've read in this thread to perhaps avoid the situation in the future. |
Apparently this ploy (with several variations) is more common than I realized. Perhaps I'm somewhat sheltered from this because almost all our play is at house parties. I'll have to keep an eye out for similar situations as they begin to unfold. If a husband forces his wife to swing so he can get his jolies, I can't believe he'd have any respect for my wife either.
As for the "payback", I think we wouldn't want to swing with any of you guys. I happen to like spicy foods and probably wouldn't even notice if I were in a revenge situation like that.
You say you'd like a vertical friendship with these guys, but your account of the actions doesn't sound friendly to me.
Birds of a feather....