I don't know. The 'open marriage' thing has always sounded, to me, like short trial separations.
OK, those of you have done it successfully, please excuse me.
I loved our swinging and would absolutely love to get back into it in some way.
But, about a year ago my wife actually mentioned the possibility of an open marriage. It was a point when I was actually a bit depressed about not swinging anymore.
My very first feeling was a little excitement but then I realized that I'd feel so darn guilty if I did it that it wouldn't be enjoyable. I would have to be single, not just have permission, to enjoy being alone with someone else.
And, Julie, is the fact you and your first husband are ex-s partly due to just this?
To me 'swinging' is when couples are enjoying this adventure together. Well, separate rooms accepted.
