 Re: Left Out
Have also had that experience. We were invited to a second play meeting (after a first vertical meeting) a couple's house ostensibly because she found me hot. After my wife and her husband left to play in a separate room she asks me if its OK if we don't play. I wasn't going to force her so I said OK and we did the dishes together from dinner (that's right - dishes). Then she tells me not to tell her husband or my wife that we didn't do anything. I told my wife anyway.
Later, we did have the over to our house for a vertical dinner as despite the problem I did like them both. I would have been happy to change the relationship to vertical to keep them as friends. My wife was pissed at them so fixed a lousy dinner that was highly spiced and it made them sick. We didn't know spicy food didn't agree with them but unintended payback was had.
I do appreciate the tips I've read in this thread to perhaps avoid the situation in the future.
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