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Originally Posted by iapr  A question I have is where are you going to be looking for your playmates? Are you going to be looking from within the swinger community, Craigslist, vanilla bars etc etc? |
Honestly, I probably won't do much active looking. There's one lady that I've been talking to in Georgia that may become a playmate, but other than that, I'm just perusing this board and Swing Lifestyle, chatting with folks, and doing more talking than anything.
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Originally Posted by iapr Lets face it, she will be able to pick up playmates in the produce section of the grocery store but you will have your work cut out for you. I do think if you attended lifestyle clubs and parties together as a couple and made it publically know within the lifestyle that you are separate play prefered I think you have a fighting chance. If people know that you as a couple play separately and that you aren't cheating you will not be thought of as a cheater or single guy. They will often have to hear it from here though. |
I think I might eventually wander up to one of the social clubs, and hopefully the wife will want to come as well and see what folks are like and all that. But I'm in no rush.
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Originally Posted by Bama0468 I agree, also building a profile some place, not making it about sex and just try building a friendship or even a good aquaintence type thing with people that interest you. In the process of talking your lifestyle will come out with those you are comfortable with and go from there, some will balk, some will be cool with it, and some ( a few) may even want to hook up |
Yup..that's kind of where I'm at. Just talking to folks, getting to know them, and *shrugs* maybe something will come of it. If not, I'm not sweating it either. I can at least say I won't be one of those desperate guys at the club, starving for sex.
