[iapr]

A question I have is where are you going to be looking for your playmates? Are you going to be looking from within the swinger community, Craigslist, vanilla bars etc etc?

Lets face it, she will be able to pick up playmates in the produce section of the grocery store but you will have your work cut out for you. I do think if you attended lifestyle clubs and parties together as a couple and made it publically know within the lifestyle that you are separate play prefered I think you have a fighting chance. If people know that you as a couple play separately and that you aren't cheating you will not be thought of as a cheater or single guy. They will often have to hear it from here though.