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Old 04-18-2008, 07:26 AM   #7 (permalink)
geminigrey
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Default Re: Open Marriage vs Swinging?

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Originally Posted by sexcupid View Post
I'm confused here...first you say you aren't playing as a couple...but here you mention bringing another female in. Can you please elaborate?
It's not that playing as a couple is out, it's just not as likely to happen. At this point, where she is cool with each of us doing our own thing seperately, I don't think she's comfortable with the idea of getting together as a group with 4 folks or anything. Right now it's more like she already has a few people that she has talked to for a long time, has built a friendship with, and is interested in, and now if they ever get a chance to meet she is free to play with them, but as far as going out and meeting new people, she's more nervous about.

If it sounds kind of fuzzy, it is to me too, so join the club. Which is why for the most part, we're not looking for anything, it's more like just leaving the door open and see if anything interesting wanders up. So far all I've gotten is door-to-door salesman and holy rollers, though, dangit!
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