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Old 04-17-2008, 10:39 PM   #4 (permalink)
geminigrey
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Default Re: Open Marriage vs Swinging?

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Originally Posted by JustAskJulie View Post
Actually, the fact that you are doing the open relationship thing makes it easier than if you were just "swinging seperately" or actually cheating.
And that's the biggest piece of worthwhile advice I've picked up along the road. Whether playing as a couple or off doing your own thing, have to be open and honest about the whole thing. I'm not going to make up some cover story to go to Georgia, when I'm actually meeting up with somebody. Whatever I do, I'm going to make sure that she knows about it, and that she's cool with it. If she's not cool with it, it doesn't need to happen, and we need to talk about why. Same thing applies even if we play together.
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