 Re: Left Out
My gut instinct on this one tells me you got suckered, Jim. And I'm real sorry that happened to you. I am glad, however, that you realize it's the other couple's fault and not your wife's. She got taken advantage of, too.
And I think you handled the situation remarkably well, as you may likely come across this couple at other parties/socials. So what to do now? I suggest being more wary, which I'm sure will be your natural reaction anyway. And you may want to consider (at least for a little while) not doing separate room play until you get to know a couple. A lot of us (Mr. Sweet and myself included) have that rule for just such reasons. If we're right next to each other, we can see what's happening (or not happening) with each other, and react accordingly.
By the way, even if it was a matter of the other woman chickening out, as Socolais suggested, it was doesn't change the end result of what happened. Your wife and the other hubby had a grand ole' time, leaving you out in the cold.
Hopefully, ya'll can just learn from this one and move on to happier experiences.
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