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Old 04-16-2008, 10:57 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Don't feel bad about it. This was obviously planned from the beginning and you were set up. Reading the scenario, I can see that, under the right circumstances, we would fall for such a ruse as well.

I am glad to see that you realize that the duplicity was on part of the other couple, and your wife is blameless in this. As a matter of fact, she appears to be as much of a victim as you are, because she was obviously taken advantage of. Other couples would have blamed each other. You have the wisdom to avoid that trap.

As for avoiding such a scheme in the future.... well, with further experience you'll find yourself harder to trick. Also, as two4youinswva already pointed out... keep it strictly "same room" until you know the other couple well. This is also a good idea strictly from a safety/security perspective. Until we get to know them pretty well, I simply won't leave Amelia alone with another guy. It's not because I don't trust her, it's because I don't trust him.
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