 Re: Left Out
I'm pretty laid back in the club. However, with my skeptical side which lears it's ugly head, I probably would have made an ass of myself unfortunately, because it seems instincts are correct most of the time because when she left the room I probably would have went into the bedroom and pulled the sarcastic excuse, of "I'm going to watch, seeing as your wife has issues." Not that I could have gotten into watching, I would just feel slighted by him and his wife so why not. As for anyone wondering how my wife would feel about my actions: Well let's say that neither one of us want the other to feel uncomfortable about any situation, because we are in this for US (not just one of us).
For future: I can't know whether I would have known something was up, but the "only same room" rule is definitly a good place to start.
I can certainly understand, if you felt like you got the shaft, because well you did. I have to say though that you handled this very well. Don't let this drive you from swinging, just take it as a learning experience, keep the communication open with your wife, and possibly take this opportunity to re-evaluate your boundaries of acceptable situations & non-acceptable situations as you talk to your wife.
Thats my 2 cents....
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