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Originally Posted by two4youinswva 
However, we have one rule that would have kept that from happening. We don't play in separate rooms except with couples we've played with before.
So, she would have had to "take care of me" right there on the same bed at the same time, or it wouldn't have happened.
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two4youinswva presents the best way to avoid this situation, and it is why we approach swinging the same way. We are very comforatble in separate rooms, even swinging separately, but first we play together with a couple in the same room. If that goes well we then advance to different types of arrangements at future play dates, if all are comfortable.
I see your experience as something that could happen to anyone, new or experienced, and you handled yourself well.
Good to see you posting again, Jim.
LM