[ncmd_couple]

Hi Bellady,

That is one of the reasons that we don't play with people we have business relationships with. It is important to keep business and pleasure seperate. That is the way that you want to approach this with your husband. It is something that he can grasp more easily than relationship issues between the ladies. Us guys have a hard time with that sometimes.

It is also hard to undo what has been done. But the one thing you two can do is try to pay him what you owe so that lever is not there. For me, if my lady doesn't like someone, for what ever reason, then that is all it takes to step back. But the key is that you need to talk to your husband from a point of view that he will better grasp. Good luck!

S