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Old 04-13-2008, 08:38 AM   #59 (permalink)
rpu3
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Default Re: What do you tell others about where you are when swinging?

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Originally Posted by graygo98 View Post
Now this I really like! A one-time "sort of" admission, and from then on its your free pass from the third degree.

How far did you go into explaining what "alternative" is?
Well, that's a different story. The short version is in asking us about a resort, she did a very judgmental "are YOU one of those SWINGERS?". I responded that I didn't really think of myself as a swinger, but tended towards "consensual nonmongamist". And then a minute later, "yes, I have sex with other people." Neither one of us has been questioned since, nor have we heard anything other judgmental comments about swingers, et al.

She had called while I was out of town recently; when I spoke to her myself on Tuesday, she asked a million questions about my weekend, but avoided the big 'un. Smart move; don't ask if you aren't ready to hear the answer, because I was prepared with the truth!
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