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incommunicado · 04-10-2008, 01:15 AM

[QUOTE One thing about the "young 20-30 something hard bodies" that you were looking for..... their "strike zone" is probably from late teens to around 30. That means they're looking for girls who still have tight flat tummies and perky boobs and men that have 6-packs and full heads of hair and can go all night long. Even if your bodies are in really good shape, your hands, feet, skin, teeth, and libido are still in mid-life. "Early 40's" is only a few years younger than their parents.

O.K., I realize this is just going to be a case of he said/he said, but, we are really not just mid-lifers who are trying to dodge mid-life. We actually do look like we are in our late 20's (her) to early 30's (me), along with the in shape bodies. At least that's what we get from everyone who discovers our ages (and they aren't even trying to get us into bed!) that's skin, teeth, hands, feet, AND libido (O.K. our 2 year old son does a number on that)

Does it seem ironic to you that percentage-wise, the people you wanted to hook up with (20's-30's) were about the same age difference from you as the ones you considered "much older" (50's) and wanted to avoid?

Actually, no. Because we look and much more like 20-30 year olds, and relate to them much more closely than to the 50+ set. Even though it's only 10 years in the opposite direction, as you say, 50 plusers seem much more in the range of our parents age (early to mid-sixties) than the do ours. They also talk and act like they are old enough to be our parents. Again, I don't remember writing about actually seeking to hook up in my original note. We wanted to be in a room, full of hot people having sex, to fuel our fire and, hopefully, for us to fuel theirs. But, actually partnering with others wasn't what we were going for. MAYBE if we were looking for partners, we would have been more forgiving, because personality does enter into it for us if we actually want to have sex with people. But, since we were going for the view only, that never entered into the equation.

I still think your story was pretty funny. I wonder what was said (or done) that got that guy clocked?[/QUOTE]

Not sure. Maybe the guy hit on him? The whole bi thing is standard amongst the women, but not so welcome amongst the men.

04-10-2008, 01:15 AM	#17 (permalink)
incommunicado Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 198 Location: Baltimore, MD	Re: Not very high-flying experience at Trapeze! [QUOTE One thing about the "young 20-30 something hard bodies" that you were looking for..... their "strike zone" is probably from late teens to around 30. That means they're looking for girls who still have tight flat tummies and perky boobs and men that have 6-packs and full heads of hair and can go all night long. Even if your bodies are in really good shape, your hands, feet, skin, teeth, and libido are still in mid-life. "Early 40's" is only a few years younger than their parents. O.K., I realize this is just going to be a case of he said/he said, but, we are really not just mid-lifers who are trying to dodge mid-life. We actually do look like we are in our late 20's (her) to early 30's (me), along with the in shape bodies. At least that's what we get from everyone who discovers our ages (and they aren't even trying to get us into bed!) that's skin, teeth, hands, feet, AND libido (O.K. our 2 year old son does a number on that) Does it seem ironic to you that percentage-wise, the people you wanted to hook up with (20's-30's) were about the same age difference from you as the ones you considered "much older" (50's) and wanted to avoid? Actually, no. Because we look and much more like 20-30 year olds, and relate to them much more closely than to the 50+ set. Even though it's only 10 years in the opposite direction, as you say, 50 plusers seem much more in the range of our parents age (early to mid-sixties) than the do ours. They also talk and act like they are old enough to be our parents. Again, I don't remember writing about actually seeking to hook up in my original note. We wanted to be in a room, full of hot people having sex, to fuel our fire and, hopefully, for us to fuel theirs. But, actually partnering with others wasn't what we were going for. MAYBE if we were looking for partners, we would have been more forgiving, because personality does enter into it for us if we actually want to have sex with people. But, since we were going for the view only, that never entered into the equation. I still think your story was pretty funny. I wonder what was said (or done) that got that guy clocked?[/QUOTE] Not sure. Maybe the guy hit on him? The whole bi thing is standard amongst the women, but not so welcome amongst the men.
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